A Guide To Dating In Your 30s

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So you've made it to your 30s. Congratulations. Now you're ready for the big leagues. Your rookie days in the triple-A dating scene are over. You can now man up to the new playing field of love. No more wasting time on dead-end women. You know (and she'll know) exactly what you want out of a relationship. Will she be "Ms. Right" or simply "Ms. Right Now"? You decide, because now you can, with confidence.

You know what you want in love, the only question is, what type of woman are you looking for? Only you know the answer. Just remember; there's a different woman for every relationship scenario.

So, without further ado, read up on what you can do to increase your chances of meeting the one you want... and avoiding the ones you don't.

types of women you'll meet

The "Ticking Biological Clock" Woman
You'll meet her and at some point she'll ask you if you like children. Know what you're getting yourself into! If you're not looking for marriage within the next year, stay away from her. But if you've got kiddies on your mind as well, by all means, chat this lady up. Married bliss is just a flirt away.

The Divorcée
You'll know it's her because she'll usually tell you straight up that she's divorced. You'll probably be told how happy she is to be rid of the louse. Recognize that you may be in for a lot of man bashing. On the other hand, if you're looking for some good vengeful sex, you're in the right place.

The Rebound Woman

Potentially the most fun of all women you're likely to meet. She's just looking for a good time. She wants to dance, play and sing, go to a football game, anything! Just as long as it takes her mind off of her ex. This is usually a short-term, intense affair, but if you show her a good time, you get an all-access pass to bounce around the bedroom with her. 

The "Eternally Single" Woman

There's likely a reason she's eternally single -- she's not really sure what she wants. You'll realize she fits in this category when you get to talking and she tells you all the things she's looking for in a man, and each sentence contradicts the one before. She'll want you to be the most spontaneous guy around, but you'd better plan out that spontaneity to the last detail for her. With loads of patience, maybe you can sift through her delirium. Maybe.

The Career Woman

She'll get straight to the point. She's a busy woman with little time to waste on games. There's a life plan in motion and a man is but one aspect in the greater scheme. The good news is she's ambitious and will get what she wants out of life. The bad news is you may just be another prize. 

The "Sugar Daddy" Woman

When the first words out of her mouth are, "How much do you make?" get ready for expenditures. This honey wants to be pampered. And you can own her, for a price. If this is your ideal and you have enough bling bling , you're all set to go. She'll do her part in bed and on your arm at dinner functions and charity events. Just don't expect too much and keep the cash flowing.

where to meet women

You're not going to "keggers" and strip clubs for your kicks anymore. You've now got more refined locales to choose from for your dating needs. Here are a few good places to start.

Cooking class: When you spot her in the class, be sure to suggestively stir your linguini and invite her over so you can both end up cooking together. It's a great place to be able to talk and feed her chocolate. She'll be wishing you could mix her ingredients in no time.

Fitness class: Whether it's Tae-Bo or yoga, you'll be showing off your form even as you scan the leotards around you. Make an effort to work out next to your classmate of choice and let her see you're not afraid to sweat when (and where) it counts.

Museums: Spot her by the Rembrandt and strike up a discourse on the uses of color and shape. The museum allows you to show off your artistic savoir-faire and makes you sexy in her eyes for having such a cultured mind. You'll be painting brushstrokes over her body in no time.

Coffee shop: Nothing is more charming than asking her if you can sit with her over a cup of java. You're both from the neighborhood and she's likely seen you around too. Ask her if you can buy her a second cup of coffee, when you meet her for your first "official" date.

House party: The ultimate setting -- mutual friends; common topics to talk about; wine and ambient music; a quiet little corner with a love seat for two. Later in the evening, invite her for a walk outside and get her number so you set up a private house party for two later on.

Wedding: Nothing makes single women want to meet a man more than the wedding scenario. Just pick someone you find interesting and go talk to her. You'll never find women more receptive to your approach than here... unless they came with a date. 

Bookstore: Glance at her mysteriously over the top of the collected works of E.E. Cummings. Nothing makes you more appealing than being well-read and witty. Don't be afraid to use the knowledge you've amassed -- she'd be disappointed if you didn't.

how to approach women

Now that you've figured out how and where to spot women, your last obstacle to love is actually talking to them. Remember; you have the confidence that can only come from being a self-assured man in his 30s.

Here's how to put your swagger where your mouth is:

Don't use pickup lines: Stay away from stuff like "Hey babe, where'd you get those really neat space pants? Because your ass is out of this world!" You're above that now and it won't work (if it ever did). 

Be yourself: Be honest. Remember; your best pickup line is no pickup line. Just move in and introduce yourself as a gentleman should. You'll find her staring smolderingly into your eyes in no time.

Ask a question: Asking something interesting that you'd like to know about her. "What do you do for a living?" is good. "Can I see your thong collection?" is bad.

Show interest: This means you listen -- really listen -- after you ask any question about her. Furthermore, ask pertinent follow-ups. This shows thoughtfulness and sincerity; things you should have plenty of by this point in your life.

When possible, be introduced by an acquaintance: Being introduced by someone she knows helps make a good first impression. According to her, it means your mutual acquaintance trusts you enough to make an introduction. Your good character is revealed -- the rest is up to you.

Get her contact info: Be suave about it. She may be reluctant to give you her phone number. But technology is great and you can always ask for her e-mail address. This is more likely to give her a sense of security in communicating with you. She'll appreciate that, so much so, she'll probably give you her number anyway. If she balks at that too, you can suggest exchanging numbers so that you each have the chance to call.

Give her your contact info: Hey, it's 2003. There's nothing wrong with you giving her your phone number and leaving it in her court. You can write your home phone number on the back of your business card and make it a casual thing. If she calls, great. If she doesn't, you've still got plenty more business cards.

go get 'em!

So now you're ready to get out there and be the man you know how to be. Combine all these tips and work that 30s confidence that you have in abundance. Remember; you know what you want and now you know how to get it. The women are out there just waiting to make your acquaintance.

I'd wish you good luck, but you don't need it.

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