2012年8月30日星期四

The Best Way to End a Relationship

Millionaire Dating

    No one likes to get blindsided by a breakup. At the same time, though, initiating one comes with its own set of worries and decisions no one wants to make: How am I going to do this? What am I supposed to say? Male and female dating experts alike share their tips to make the hardest, saddest stage of your relationship a little bit easier
Never take the easy way out and do it via technology (email, voicemail, text, or Facebook). You’re dealing with another human that you once had feelings for and that you need to respect and honor. It’s all about sitting somebody down and giving them the reasons why the relationship is not working out, so they can heal, move forward and maybe develop a friendship with you in the future.
-David Wygant is a relationship coach is a dating coach for men and women. 
There is no best way to end a relationship, because you can never control how the other person is going to feel or respond. I would recommend, though, that if you are determined to end something, as soon as you know for sure this is what you want to do, summon the courage for your sake and theirs and end it, rather than letting it drag on for fear of hurting your partner’s feelings (or whatever other reason). Do your soon-to-be-ex a favor and allow them to put their energies into meeting someone else.
-Neely Steinberg is a dating/relationships columnist and is Boston’s Premier Dating Coach for the Modern-day Woman. 
The most important thing to remember is that relationships take work, so you should be certain that you want to end the relationship and that there’s no way to fix whatever issues are going on. There’s nothing worse than ending a relationship, realizing you made a huge mistake and then begging him/her to get back together with you. If you end up doing that, you run the risk of him/her realizing during the break that ultimately you weren’t really the right one for him/her anyway.
-Suzanne K. Oshima is a matchmaker and dating coach at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette and founder of Single in Stilettos.
When ending a relationship, be mindful of “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Gently but firmly state your intention to end things. Be direct, be brief, and remain calm. Don’t assign blame to yourself (“It’s not you, it’s me”) or to the other party (“this is all your fault”). Instead, state your disappointment that things didn’t work out, sincerely wish the other person well, and then leave. A clean break is the most humane way to put a dead relationship out of its misery.
-David M. Matthews is a relationship coach, advice columnist, and author of Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider’s Guide to How Men Think.
Ending a relationship is never easy, whether it’s after three months or three years. Make sure you’ve come to this decision after careful thought and not just a heated fight. Decisions made in the heat of rage are often ones we regret. From here, the question arises of how to break up with someone tactfully and gracefully. My advice is to break up with someone in person (no calls, texts, or IMs) and to be honest. No one can fault you for sharing your feelings in an honest and productive way.
-Erika Ettin is the founder of A Little Nudge. 
There’s a time and a place for shortcuts via tech and text, but a relationship isn’t one of them–no text or Facebook break ups allowed! Having a conversation face-to-face is not only more respectful but leaves less room for ambiguity. That doesn’t mean it has to be or should be drawn out, but it should be live. Emphasize that it’s the relationship that’s not working, rather than focusing on personal shortcomings. And wait until you’ve had the conversation to change your Facebook status to single.
-Laurie Davis is an online dating coach, founder of eFlirt Expert, and author of Love at First Click: The Ultimate Guide to Online Dating. Available in February from Simon & Schuster.
Ending a relationship is so uncomfortable. In my own life I’ve been very cowardly about it because I didn’t want to hurt anyone. However the hurt is inescapable. Being honest, clear and brief is the best way to close the door on a relationship. Don’t leave loose ends; a clean break is the most respectful way to end a relationship.
-Taylor Cast is a dating and relationship expert, co-owner of The Urban Dater, and author of I Made All the Mistakes (So You Don’t Have To).
When breaking up with someone, you should be empathetic of their feelings and honest about why it didn't work out. This usually speeds up the closure process for both of you. For how and where, face to face at a place that had no shared meaning to your relationship would work best. There you can discuss the breakup clearly with no distractions and avoid a "marathon breakup," where the breakup becomes an infinite loop of emotions and lack of reason.
And NEVER just disappear, unless you're okay with a reputation as a mean coward.
-Maria Avgitidis is the owner of Agape Match, a matchmaking firm that caters to New Yorkers and Greek-American singles.
Tell us: Do you have the perfect method to break up with someone?





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2012年8月28日星期二

How to Find Your Sugar Daddy

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Feeling a little cash poor and lovelorn? Then click on over to MatchWealthy.com, a dating site that promises you the man – and the bank account – of your dreams.
The pitch is to match young, attractive women who “want to be taken care of and treated like a princess” with busy, successful men who want “to pamper a special someone” or “have an extramarital affair.”
Give them points for laying their cards on the table.
The site’s founder, Gautam Sharma, tells BettyConfidential that his two million members – self-appointed Sugar Babies, Sugar Daddies, Sugar Mommas, Sugar Baby-Males and Gay Sugar Daddies – feel no shame in cutting to the chase. Or to the check.
“What's wrong with admiring and desiring a man for his accomplishments in life?” Sharma asks. “This is no different from many marriages, where the man has a successful career and takes care of his woman and she takes care of him in the ways that she is able to.”
(The site is equal-opportunity: It also caters to wealthy Sugar Mommas looking for men and women to spoil.)
The Sugar Babies certainly aren’t bashful. Their profile pics are littered with cleavage, thigh-highs and naughty schoolgirl ensembles. Testimonials gush about the vacations to the Bahamas, designer shopping sprees, luxury cars – and, oh yeah, true love – these women have found on SugarDaddyForMe.
Is this for real? Or too trashy to consider? And should I be wasting my time on boring coffee dates when there are Sugar Daddies waiting to whisk me off to St. Barts?
“Layla,” a 26-year-old massage therapist from Kansas City, tells BettyConfidential she’s had great success on SugarDaddyForMe, landing men who paid for her pre-med classes, vacations to Vegas and New Orleans, extravagant dinners and expensive shopping sprees.
Yet she doesn’t see herself as a gold digger.
“I just look at it as being goal-oriented,” she says. “I know what I want and I know who would be best in the position to get me there – and it’s probably not a guy fresh out of college.”
Most of the men she’s met through the site are decades older than she, but “it wasn’t like I was pushing them in a wheelchair or anything.”
So what does she offer in return for all those tuition payments and frequent-flyer miles?
“I’m not going to promise my body for any material gain,” she insists, adding that she communicates her position on sex right off the bat.
Hold up – the guys give her all that stuff and she doesn’t “give it up” in return?
“There are things you can do to show the person you appreciate them, other than just lying down and having sex,” she says. Hmmm…we can think of a few.


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2012年8月25日星期六

Best Places To Meet A Millionaire——C'mon, you know you want one.

Millionaire Dating

Are you looking for a $oulmate, one with good look$, a great per$onality, and $omeone you can depend on? If finding your true love means reading between the lines and nabbing a man with a bloated bank account, then look no further. We put together the top five places you can go to find the man of your dream$. After all, mama always said, "It's just as easy to fall in love with a rich guy as a poor one!"
Read How to Find Your Sugar Daddy
1. Charity/Celebrity Golf Tournaments: Celebrity and charity sporting events such as golf tournaments are a great place to meet wealthy men. Dress to look your best, know a bit about the score and players, and find a place on the sidelines close to an eligible man. Usually celebrity golf tournaments are held in exotic locales, whose pool and beach scenes also double as pick up spots. Check out the Michael Jordan Celebrity Golf Tournament in the Bahamas, held in January, where one lady we interviewed met her fiancé, a millionaire banker from Connecticut.
2. Upgrade to First Class: Oftentimes airlines give you the option to upgrade to first class for around $150, which will also sometimes give you access to their first class lounge. Upgrade, arrive early, hang in the lounge and sit yourself near any single men and chat about the obvious: travel! If you're really lucky maybe once you get on the plane you will be seated next to an eligible millionaire. It’s practically thrown in your lap!
3. Look For Millionaires Online: Want to hunt for a millionaire from the comfort of your own home? There are plenty of websites dedicated to hooking up wealthy men with eligible women. One of the best isMillionaireTag.com, where a woman we interviewed met a millionaire she hit it off with on her third try. The site even has features to make sure your potential man is true, like their “Certified Millionaire” status.
4. Hotel Lounges and Pools: Catching a traveling millionaire while he is relaxing grabbing a drink or some sun is a great time to start a conversation with your potential beau. Check out the Four Seasons, a favorite of millionaire locals and travelers in major cities, or find out what the top hotel in your area is, pull yourself up to the bar, order a drink and try to nab a millionaire before he checks out. 
5. Pals With Millionaire Men: There is nothing like a personal reference! Do you have a pal who met a great millionaire man and has a relationship that is chugging along? Don’t be shy! Ask her to ask him if he has any single friends, and go on a double date. Being brought in by your pal and her man gives you instant credibility.
Good luck with your millionaire cha$e ladies, but don’t forget to look for things like compatibility, shared goals, and mutual interests as well. After the flare of VIP dining and traveling has worn off, you might need something to talk about.
Tell us: Do you want to meet a millionaire man?


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Millionaire Dating: How To Get More Responses From Women?


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Probably you’ve tried online dating for some time and sent a number of emails out, but you seldom get responses. Actually, you are not alone. Many online daters have similar problems. Here’s an example from Millionaire Match.
One day, our dating expert received one email like this:“Would you please take a look at my profile and let me know why I am not getting responses from women?  I am told by women I am good looking.”
We checked that dating profile, and confirmed that this gentleman is a good looking and interesting guy. He is also a certified millionaire on Millionaire Match. What makes him not successful in online dating? Our dating expert offered the following tips to him:
Yes, you are very good looking, but most women want more than looks in a man.
I read your dating profile and personally, I would not respond to it either.  Posting photos of your abs, just doesn’t get it.  You say nothing about yourself, other than you are “Hot”.  Women generally determine whether or not they will respond, by what the text of a profile says about the man.
I suggest you give some serious thought to writing more about yourself and what you are looking for in a mate.  Your profile is your only way of grabbing attention, so it is important to make it stand out from all the other profiles–don’t forget to add a little humor to it, too.
I noticed you are only sending out winks–winks get very low response rate.  If you are serious about wanting to know more about a woman , send her an email.  Tell her what it is about her profile that caught your attention.  Show her you are genuinely interested in getting to know more about her.
A few weeks later, we received a thanks email from him: after he improved his profile and writing style, he received 10 times more responses from other female members.
Are you still in trouble with your dating communication? Read more stories on Millionaire Match by creating a free account now. You can talk with our dating expert for your own problems too.

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2012年8月23日星期四

An Idiot’s Guide To Looking Great

Millionaire Dating

Great fashion style increases the attractiveness of a woman, improving her appeal to men. When walking in a busy street, you probably take a second look at that man wearing weird clothes or had colorful dreadlocked hair that reaches his waist. You’d also notice the guy wearing the red coat amidst the sea of black, gray, and brown coats. The more you stand out, the more you will be noticed. Not that you have to be a weirdo. Be stunning.
Your Sexy Body
An awesome body will make you great eye candy for your millionaire boyfriend or husband. Go to a gym to tone those muscles now. Pretty sure you will be able to meet wealthy men looking for a hot sexy girl to bring to his mansion.
Your Beautiful Face
The first thing that people, well educated men, will see is your face (many will look at your breasts, you know that!). Still, a pretty face will leave a longer lasting impression than an ordinary one. However, you better not overdo your makeup since many of the elite find that a big turnoff. Found something ugly on your face? Don’t worry. When you marry a rich man, you can easily have that fixed.
Your Luscious Hair
Men would love to run their hands through your hair if it is shiny and luscious. There are even some who find hair a big turn on. You’ll notice that sophisticated singles and attractive women have magnificent hair, no matter what color it may be. You’ll also find certain hair styles and colors that best frame your face.
Your Slender Legs
Dating experts will tell you that men love long, slender legs. They just can’t help but imagine how those would feel wrapped up around their legs. You won’t need your soul mate to enjoy sex but you do have to at least find a good relationship starter, the fire that you stoke to fulfillment. That’s something that slender legs are going to give you. You easily see that in celebrity dating tips.
Your Fashionable Clothes
Millionaire matchmaking brings you more fashionable clothes than you can ever contain in your closet. As you meet the millionaire of your dreams, you get to enjoy a luxury lifestyle, complete with designer clothes in the latest fashion style. You will have the same clothes as the supermodels in your favorite boutique.
Your Bag and Accessories
We could not stress enough just how much it is important to have an overall appearance of beauty and class. So, you don’t have to stop with clothes. Enjoy the best bags that famous people flaunt, whether you are going to the beach, shopping, or just out to date a millionaire.

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2012年8月22日星期三

Dating Guide For Successful Women

Millionaier Dating

Young girls often dream about finding their prince someday. Then, they grow up, build a strong career, and forgot about the prince. At the height of their career, some of them suddenly realize that they are almost at the top but have no one to share their success with. No prince had swept them off their feet because they were too busy making money.

That is not to say that it is wrong to be successful and earn big money. The problem is in being too absorbed with the whole process. Don’t worry, though. If you have the same problem as it is never too late to find love. Who knows? You could date a millionaire pretty soon or even marry a rich man. Never lose hope.

Be confident in yourself. Some successful people are very confident in their jobs but act completely like fools when it comes to love. There are people who think that beautiful women are airheads; show them it is not so.

Stop being the “Iron Lady”. The road to success is often long and treacherous. Many of the elite become perfectionists because they want everything, including people, to be what they want them to be. A number of fun, beautiful girls have turned and became the much-feared “Iron Lady”.

Look and feel beautiful. You are as beautiful as a supermodel, no doubt about it. Well, use that to your advantage. Sophisticated singles do have a better chance of being in a relationship than those who have no sense of fashion style. Although great relationships are rooted on love, faith, and communication, appearances still matter. These millionaires will first see your face, right? That could determine if they would ask you out on a date. Of course, educated men will look for more than just beauty.

Make him feel special. Just as time is very important in your business deals, so is it in the matters of the heart. When you find that special guy, he’d surely want you to have great times together, create new memories. Make sure you spend quality time with him. Make him feel special since you don’t spend all your hours together. Leave work worries for the time being and be content with enjoying your date. Do stop checking your phone for messages.

Be a lady. Not that we want you to swoon when you see him. It’s just that a lot of men can be intimidated by attractive women with a strong personality – and a career to back that up. Let your man take care of you, let him woo you.

Leave your past behind. Don’t think that this will go just like your previous relationships. Do stop comparing him with your ex.

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Dating Guide For Successful Men

Millionaire Dating

It is fun to pursue successful girls and famous people. They meet wealthy men everyday that she does not really give extra though to your bankroll. Is she just a challenge or do you really like her? Ask yourself that before you invest your time, money, and emotions on wooing her. Just as you are successful in your career, you can also be successful in the matters of the heart.
First, don’t be intimidated by your lady’s success. Gone were the days when women are left at home while the men work for their living. Of course, there are plenty of women who are already at the top of the corporate ladders even in Fortune 500 companies. Don’t make her choose between you and her career. Allow her to grow as an individual.
You think beautiful girls are naturally born without brains. C’mon! Are you from the middle ages? You want to date a millionaire and that millionaire happens to be a hot sexy girl. Did she just inherit the company from her rich, old dad or did she work her way to the top? Those are possibilities but you have to admit that a lot of successful people are there because they have brains. So, never ever underestimate her.
Remember that she’s not a trophy. You love attractive women because everyone will see you snagged her. Most women do not like to be treated as such. She’d break up with you the second she got wind that you pursued her for that.
Don’t make her choose between you and her friends. She had those friends forever and they’d stuck with her through thick and thin, literally. Never, for one moment, think she’d willingly ditch them for you. Actually, you’d have better success with her if you also woo her friends. As you get to know your lady, find time to also meet her friends.
Don’t make assumptions. Think of your relationship as a partnership with lots of romantic benefits on the side.
Do remember special dates. Women hate it when you forget that it’s your anniversary or it’s her birthday. If you can keep track of your corporate empire, it’s much easier to keep track of these few special dates.
Do give her flowers and chocolates. No matter how successful career a woman might be, she’d love receiving presents like flowers, chocolates, perfumes, and other stuff you pick for her. It might be more convenient for you to just give her a credit card to buy those stuff but remember that she could be making more money than you. It really is not about how much you give her but the sweet thought of you picking those presents for her. Every woman is born a romantic even if she does not want to admit that yet.
Do surprise her from time to time. Take her on a luxury vacation and stay in a 5-star hotel.


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2012年8月21日星期二

Finding And Attracting Single Millionaires On The Web: Expert Advice

Millionaire Dating

Finding millionaire men and women via the web is not so hard. However, attracting them is not so easy as many people would think. These people are hard to pin down and however much you find them, you will have to put more effort for them to get interested in you. They have high standards and will never be desperate for you. You should never expect them to come after you.
Additionally,you need to know that dating a millionaire single could be one hard thing. Immediately you enter into a relationship with a millionaire, you should not allow to live the good life which you have always wanted. Here are some tips which can enable you find and date a single millionaire.
Start your search online. If you use the old fashioned techniques of looking for dates, you will be consuming a lot of time. Not many people have adequate time for looking for people to date hence the need to adopt methods that yield quick results. Doing a web based search will also make you avoid dressing fancy. These are among the many reasons why you should think of looking for millionaires on the web.
If you know where to search,there are many singles who can be found on the internet. Those people who are new to dating can search for the millionaires to date using the search engines. There are many millionaire dating sites which you can register with and it is good that you make a selection based on your preferences. But you should know that quality sites charge a small fee for the service. Do a research and single out dating sites that are legitimate since not all that are available are genuine.
After you have done the sign-up, your next concern should be how to attract the people who you would like to date. There is nothing that you can do to date potential millionaires if you cannot find them. You should have the ideal personality if you have to attract someone who is financially endowed. Singles who are millionaires go for other singles whose personality is not only charming,but also attractive.
You need to have enough sense of humor since this will help attract them. You should also check your looks in your quest for a millionaire date since these people will only want to talk to people who look at their best. It is of great importance that you be ready mentally and physically to get the attention of a single millionaire.

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