2013年1月28日星期一

SeekWealthyMen.com——Guidelines for Successful Dating

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So many people ask me questions about dating that I thought I’d share some guidelines, do’s and don’t’s with you; to help you make dating fun, safe and successful. No matter how times change, what works in relationships remains surprisingly the same. Everyone seems to be in a hurry today, but if you rush into a relationship, you’ll create big problems for yourself. Starting off on the right note will make many things easier later.

Good Behavior 
Although behaving badly seems to be a trend in movies and TV these days, rude and irresponsible behavior is deadly to relationships. Continuing to see someone who is rude, thoughtless or narcissistic is simply asking for a relationship problem. If you model good behavior and manners yourself, you’ll influence the person you’re dating in a positive way; or at least make his or her bad behavior stand out so you can see it clearly.

To get the best result out of your early dating experiences, try following these guidelines:

• Avoid Anxiety and GiddinessDating is exciting and energizing. Of course you should have fun and enjoy the moment, but if you get too excited, anxious and giddy, you might come on too strong. It’s important that your anxiety not mask the real you. Keep your thoughts on the reality that you don’t know what is going to happen to the relationship. Pay attention to what you are learning about your date, and allow the relationship to develop slowly over many dates like this.
• Use the Power of Charm
Remember how powerful your smile can be, and use your eye contact and ask questions to keep the conversation flowing. Think about what interests you about your date, and show interest in his or her opinions, experiences and activities. Be complementary whenever possible, and respond intelligently to whatever is said to you.
• Have Fun — Don’t Get Too HeavyKeep your date light and easy, and have a good time. If you keep the focus of your attention on being pleasant, having fun, and not getting too far ahead of the relationship, you will be great company. 
• Make Conversation Interesting and Easy, With No Deep SecretsYou can talk about anything, including your personal lives, past relationships and love in general, but don’t be the one who brings up the intimate topics first. Be careful not to pry too deeply into your date’s private life and secrets, unless the information is voluntarily offered. You’ll learn a lot more about your date if you are genuinely interested in hearing what he or she has to say; than if you conduct an interrogation.
• Don’t Talk Too Much about YourselfKeep your focus on learning about your date and don’t get into talking too much about yourself. Dole out some information about you, especially if it relates to what your date is saying, but don’t let yourself talk endlessly about your own life, opinions, experiences or activities. 
• Pay Attention!!! You Have Things to Learn Here!
The most important aspect of any date, in addition to having a good time, is to get to know each other better. No matter how excited, turned on or thrilled you may be about this date, listening to what your date says, watching what your date does and understanding how your date feels are still your primary objectives. Keep an objective viewpoint in the back of your mind and think about what your date is revealing to you.
• What Your Date Thinks of You Is Not Your Business — Focus on What You Think of Your Date.
One of the easiest ways to lose your objectivity and balance in this is to let yourself worry about what your date thinks about you. I call this “getting into your date’s head.” If you spend your time essentially trying to look at yourself through your date’s eyes, guessing what he or she is seeing when looking at you, or hearing when listening to you, you’ll miss what’s really happening. It’s a very self-involved thing to do, and it makes it impossible for you to relate intelligently to your date. What your date thinks of you is not really your business. You have a responsibility to pay attention so you know what YOU think of your date. 

Hopefully, in all these considerations, because you’ve thought about the serious issues in advance, you’ll still be able to relax and have a good time—so good, that you decide to keep dating each other. 

Keep in mind that you’re not looking for just sex or romance—if you want a long-term relationship, the character of the person that will determine whether your relationship will be a success, not his or her outward appearance. Here are some Dating Do's and Don'ts to help
you.

Dating Do’s and Don’ts 
DO'S
• Do ‘shop around’—don't stay focused on one person until you've given yourself a choice.
• Do listen. Don't monopolize the conversation. You'll learn even more about your date, and be more relaxed. 
*Do focus on friendship. When you’ve just met someone, you can't know where it might go, so concentrate on developing the friendship. You can have as many friends as you want.
• Do get feedback. Offer your comments on the event or the restaurant, and ask your date what he or she thought of it, for future reference.
• Do let your date know if you enjoyed his/her company. A compliment is always welcome. If you'd like to do it again, say so. 
• If you promise to call, mean it. If you've decided not to continue the relationship but feel you can't say so, don't make empty promises.
• Do tell the truth—don't lie, but also don't share too much too soon. You don't need to tell your date about other dates if you two have no agreement about exclusivity. Wait until the relationship has progressed to exclusivity.
• Do pay attention to the clues about your date—you need to learn about this person's character, not just looks and charm.

DON'TS
• Don’t assume your date is exclusive with you if you've never talked about it. 
• Don't be afraid of silence. Occasional silences allow a conversation to feel natural and unforced.
• Don't make sex the objective. Good reasons for going slowly into sexual activity include: reducing the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, avoiding the awkwardness of intimacy with a total stranger; averting codependent obsession; and having sex to look forward to. If and when sex is right, it will happen—there’s no advantage in rushing. 
• Don't date beyond your budget. It doesn't impress your date if, in the long run, you have to make an embarrassing confession, and “buying” someone's company doesn’t work. A wide disparity in income calls for frank discussion early on. If your date spends a lot on you, reciprocating with a home-cooked meal, a hand-made gift, or needed repair work will even the
tally. 
• Don't get too self-conscious. The media focus on youth and fitness these days can make anyone feel insecure and unattractive. Look your best, then forget about it. Instead of worrying what your date thinks of you, focus on what you think of your date.

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2013年1月23日星期三

WealthyMatch.info——Dating guidelines

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You finally decided to take the plunge and sign up for an online dating service. You can't figure out, however, which site to choose. Here are a few important tips to help you with your selection.
Although there are many sites geared towards dating, there are only two types of online dating services—free and paid. In an attempt to entice you to join, some sites will offer free memberships. The catch might be this: Before you can contact prospects, many have fees ranging from $9.95 to more than $60 per month.
A free online provider such as seekrich.com, wealthymatch.info, etc, one only charges minimal amounts like matchwealthy.com, typically doesn't offer background checks or compatibility matching. You might meet a few who are looking for "the one," but you are more likely to come across people who are not as serious in their search as members on higher priced sites. The chances of kids playing on the net or married people creating false profiles increase with free providers. Dating services that charge more than $24 per month generally require a lengthy profile. Some require background checks, which can scare away would be posers, elevating your chances of finding a match.
In Deena Williams' article, Do Dating Websites Work? Williams says, "When you first begin with the online dating scene I would highly recommend that you avoid the completely free dating sites. I have had friends that were turned off from online dating because they chose to go with the free dating sites."
Another thing to take into consideration is what you're seeking in a partner. Some sites are group specific. Meaning, if you are seeking a particular ethnic group, religion, age group or certain level of income, I can almost guarantee there is a site for you. If you are seeking an interracial relationship, then Afroromance.com, also known as InterracialDatingCentral.com, would be perfect for you. If you are seeking a relationship with a wealthy person, MillionaireTag.com might be just what you're looking for.
"The Internet is a tool, not a magic wand," said dating expert, Deborrah Cooper, of AskHeart- Beat.com.
There are great online services as well as bad ones. Doing your homework is the key to finding the best one. Determine if it will be worth your while. Compare several sites to see what they have to offer. Browse the members list. See if anyone catches your eye. Once you have narrowed down your selections, do an Internet search to see what others have to say about your chosen site and go from there.
If you spend a lot time scouting for the perfect house or job, shouldn't you spend more time searching for the RIGHT partner? Remember, you get what you pay for.

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2013年1月19日星期六

Dating guidelines——How To Land A Rich Man



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Apparently the entire feminist movement was some sort of hoax.
Or so the recent rash of dating gurus and their controversial guidebooks on landing a rich guy would have you believe. Never mind equality, these women want money--and lots of it.
With burning bras a distant memory, these shameless women have authored books, offer seminars and even give private lessons on how to snag a moneyed man. They offer the where-to's and how-to's that can help unlock the marital bank without doing, well, anything--flirting not withstanding.
"Why not make it yourself?" critics often ask Ginie Polo Sayles, author of How to Marry Rich. Her response: "You can, but you can do it faster with a man."
Leidra Lawson, author of Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know If You Want to Be a Sugar Baby, is just as blunt. "Personally, I love to work," she says. "But I also like to know I can go shopping or go on vacation without having to save up money for it."

If it sounds mercenary, that's because it is. But it's also nothing new. "We're genetically programmed to go after successful men," explains Lisa Johnson, author of How to Snare a Millionaire. "All the way back to caveman days, women had to mate with the best hunters, gatherers and providers for the propagation of our species."

Not all women are convinced money is the brass ring: "It is good fortune if the person you love--male or female--happens to have money," says Kim Gandy, president of the National Organization for Women. "It's a wonderful thing, and it can certainly make life better and open opportunities for you and your children. But it's a real mistake to think that money can buy love or happiness. It can't."
But according to University of Virginia sociologists Bradford Wilcox and Steven Nock, co-authors of the study "What's Love Got to Do With It? Equality, Equity, Commitment and Women's Marital Quality." American wives are typically happier when their husbands earn the lion's share of the household income.
"Our study suggests that women who take a man's wealth into consideration when dating are likely to be happier down the line," explains Wilcox.
Of course, finding that big-time breadwinner is not as easy as it sounds. It's all about knowing how and where to search. Enter the gurus with their sage advice.
"You'll need to upgrade where you go," advises Sayles.
"Hang out where the wealthy do," echoes Johnson. That means drinking at their bars (think five-star hotels), dining at their restaurants (super high-end, of course) and playing their sports (golf, anyone?).
Another sure bet for Anna Nicole Smith-wannabes: charity events. Johnson says there's no need to donate the big bucks. Just sign up as a volunteer--you'll get a sneak peek at the guest list, an invite to the party and a free pass to mingle with the moneyed.
Just one more tip from the gurus of the gold rush: Flirting and fawning are fine, but don't discuss bank accounts.

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2013年1月17日星期四

Dating guidelines——Tips On How To Start Online Dating


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Payment
Keep in mind that there are free and paid dating sites out there. Dating services use a variety of business models. They may charge a flat membership fee to each member for access to the database. Some services allow free registration, but charge fees for addition services. Dating services may also rely on advertising as a source of revenue. If you’re not ready to pay to belong to a site, so you might want to save your money for a taxi home if that person you meet turns out to boring or worse.
Registration
Registration with an online dating service generally involves providing personal information before you can access the information for the other members. This typically includes your gender, age range and general location. Dating services may also allow you to upload photographs of yourself. Take the time to look at the dating sites available and find ones that best fit you.
Profile
You must write your dating profile carefully to ensure it is accurate and will attract the type of man you are looking for. Avoid physical descriptions as your photograph will provide this information. You should also avoid describing your mental attributes as these must be demonstrated over time. Focus instead on your life experiences and the characteristics you value in a man. Your profile should also be sufficiently distinctive to stand out from all the other profiles.
Online dating can be safe, if you take precautions, never give out your address to someone you don’t trust or know, have your first date in a public place and let someone know where you will be and when you expect to be back. Never get in a car with someone you have just met online.
Criteria
Dating services also allow you to specify what you are looking for. You should generally make your criteria as broad as possible to create a large pool of initial applicants, which you can always narrow down later.
How do you know what site to check out? Are these sites free, or do you need to pay a fee? What are you supposed to do when you do start meeting people online?
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Dating guidelines——How To Start Online Dating

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Dating sites are some of the most visited sites on the internet. So does online dating actually work or is it simply a waste of time and money?
The answer actually depends on how open you are to the possibilities. Online dating may be more exciting than ever before if you go into the entire thing with an open mind and heart.
Pros of Online Dating
  • With a good profile picture and an interesting bio you can meet a lot of members of the opposite sex online and later in person if you decide that is what you want to do.
  • You can meet people from all different kinds of backgrounds and experience a wide range of dating experiences
  • Having spent time getting to know someone Online you can often avoid the awkwardness that is usually found on a first date or a blind date.
  • You can often have as much or as little of a social life as you want.
  • You can make some great friends, meet interesting people and perhaps find the right person for you.
  • It can be fun and entertaining.
Cons of Online Dating
  • Often times the people you meet will live a great distance from where you live making it difficult to build a relationship or meet as early or as often as you might like.
  • While you may meet some great and interesting people you can also meet some real duds or those who may be downright weird or scary.
  • The person you think you know through emails and phone conversations may not be anything like the real person you actually meet.
  • While you can have a great social life and go out often there will be some real boring evenings
  • If your goal is finding Mr.or Mrs. Right it may never happen.
Online dating can be a fun adventure or a disaster, it all has to do with your own expectations going into it.

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2013年1月10日星期四

Romantic——How to Date a Hopelessly Romantic Person When You Are Not Hopelessly Romantic

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  • Understand that there is a reason that we are attracted to the people we are attracted to. This is because relationships are the learning playground of life. How we choose to relate to others gives us information about ourselves. When we see things that we like in others, it illuminates those things that we like and admire in ourselves. And when we see things that we dislike in others, it often signals that we dislike something in ourselves.

  • Consider what your opinion says about you. For example, if you like that they are "hopelessly romantic," you may have your own "hopelessly romantic" side that you would like to bring more attention to. If you dislike that they are so hopelessly romantic, it may mean that you have closed down the idea of romance in yourself, and their romance serves to remind you of all of the ways in which you were hurt when you were deeply connected to someone.

  • Give yourself permission to see the world differently. You do not have to see the world as a hopeless romantic does in order to relate to one. Your perception--as well as theirs--has merit, and is worthy of your appreciation and attention.

  • Don't confuse romance with materialism. Hopeless romantics can be low-maintenance dates/partners. Instead of needing to wow them with expensive gifts, dinners, and vacations, you can please them with gestures that are less expensive. Taking late-night walks, cooking a fancy dinner at home, and writing love letters are just a few things you can do to keep your hopelessly romantic partner happy without breaking the bank.

  • Think of some things that your partner accepts about you. There is probably something you are passionate about that your partner is not. If they accept and encourage this passion, appreciate that, and seek to return the favor. And, if your partner doesn't accept your ideas or interests, this might be a good time to talk about how you can both make your relationship healthier by valuing each others individuality.

  • Remember the essence of romance is doing something that you would not normally do, simply because you care. You may never buy a bunch of flowers for yourself, and that's exactly what makes it special. The recipient knows you did it just to show you care, and for no other reason.

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2013年1月7日星期一

Matchmaker——Tips To Getting The Best Vacation And Hotel Deals

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When people go on a holiday, they desire to stay in the best hotels while exploring the best travel destinations on offer. You can always the best stay when on vacation, but this shouldn’t mean that you spend a lot of money. If you know of the places to get the best travel deals, you can reduce the financial burden which will befall you.
From flights, best hotel rentals, car rentals and many more, there are always secrets that could pave way for the best deals possible. The web is a resource rich place where you can always get the kind of information you need when seeking to discover deals that will help reduce the cost you will incur when going on vacation. You can get the packages in whole or separately depending on what you require.
You will discover that there are travel agencies that are known for dealing with last minute travel deals. These deals cover all the classes that are available and include those for luxury, economy, budget and premium. This means that each person will be able to get the right deal that suits every person. As  for accommodation purposes, there are  quite  a number of options which you can  choose from  and  include  such options  as holiday  cottages, flats, guesthouses  and many more. Look around and check if there are deals that suit your needs from the long list of sites that are available.
But you must use a site that is reputable. Not all travel sites have the capacity to provide you with the best. The people who are behind these travel sites have many networks to choose from and that means they will be able to make the right choice. You can save up to 55 percent of the total costs which you could use in the long run.
However, it’s recommended that you exercise a lot of flexibility when you have opted to go for last minute deals. If there is need to leave a day earlier or later to save you on costs, you should be ready to do this. Be ready to make immediate booking when it is prudent to do so. This will absolutely save you a lot of money in the long run.
Regardless of what you need, there are many options that can offer you the best value for your money. Know where to check and you will make massive savings.


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2013年1月6日星期日

Millionaire Matchmaker——10 Easy Online Dating Guidelines

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You've bitten the bullet and joined a dating site. Your email box is crammed with emails from admirers hoping to be the love of your life. As you sift through them and read the profiles, your hopes are lifted. You may even respond immediately to the ones that appear promising. For a couple of days, you're having a great time – not really "meeting" anyone, just corresponding. Then the correspondences stop. You haven't met anyone and you're wondering, what happened?
Online dating is like one huge virtual social scene. When you physically go into a nightclub, you have the advantage of visually weeding out what is and what isn't attractive to you. You meet people from the "outside in", and if you have the opportunity to connect, you may get to know more about them.
In the virtual world, you meet people from the "inside out." Communications are in the form of email and instant messaging, and you may choose to exchange phone numbers, at which time you're able to assimilate a voice with the words you've exchanged. If there's a connection, then you pick a place to meet.
The tricky part of online dating is getting to the meet-in-person stage. Seriously, if you wanted a pen pal, you would have joined a writer's site, right? Here's a little clue: if you're only communicating via email and instant messaging, chances are pretty good that the person you're communicating with isn't really emotionally available (and possibly not even physically available).
Here are ten tips on how to make online dating work for you:
  1. Many people write out profiles of what they want to be, rather than who they actually are. If it sounds too good to be true, it's probably false. 
  2. If someone is reluctant to give you a phone number or ask for yours, move on to the next person. Now, it's true that in an age of stalkers and whackos, that some won't give out a phone number. Use your discretion. However, if you're going to get off the computer and into a coffee shop,someone has to make a move.
  3. Realize that you are not the only one with whom your potential date is communicating. Don't get all squirrelly and run away if an email isn't immediately returned. 
  4. If you notice that the person appears to be logged in most of the time because the "online" feature shows up, understand that most people don't bother logging out, so it just looks like they are online 24/7. Don't assume that they are constantly trolling the profiles.
  5. Keep your expectations to a minimum. In other words, don't expect to meet the love of your life, but do expect to expand your social circle and meet new friends.
  6. Do not judge a person in the first two minutes of a face-to-face meeting. The computer provides a nice shield for those that are social illiterates. Without the buffer of a computer, many feel very vulnerable and exposed when they meet someone in "real life." Understand that the initial meeting may be awkward for you both.
  7. If someone continually makes plans to meet, then breaks it off at the last minute, don't put any more effort into getting together. Face it – if a potential date can't even commit to having a cup of coffee, how can this person commit to a relationship with you?
  8. If communication is inconsistent after a few dates, your dating interest's profile is still up and this person is active, realize that you aren't "The One." Don't get mad and fire off a nasty-gram or feel rejected. It's all part of dating. Graciously move on to the next one.
  9. You may have to kiss a ton of toads to find one prince. It can get frustrating, but don't let your frustrations make you cynical or lose hope.
  10. Don't feel that you need to reveal every detail of your life. Leave some mystery. Yes, you want to be honest and not play games, but it's called a "dating game" for a reason and the reality is that there are certain rules that you need to apply.


There are probably a hundred other things that can be added to this list. The basics are simple – it's a dating game whether it is online or otherwise. Have fun with it, and you'll be amazed at what blossoms from within you.

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2013年1月4日星期五

Established Men——Dating Guide to Online Dating

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Dating is complicated enough on its own; when you add in the confusion of online dating sites, it can be
just plain intimidating. But it’s easier––and more fun!––than you think. Not to mention effective: Each day, an average of 236 people who met on matchwealthy.com get married. That’s over 86,000 people a year! So, how do you go from logging on to finding your perfect match? There is a technique to navigating the virtual playing field. “I equate online dating to looking for a job,” says Julie Spira, cyber-dating expert and author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating. “You’d want a rock star résumé for your perfect dream job, and you should feel the same way about your online dating profile.” And the profile is just where it starts—we have plenty of expert tips, from sending the perfect first e-mail to picking your first date location. Here, everything you need to know to find love on the World Wide Web.
1. Your Profile Picture
It can seem difficult to stand out in the vast sea of online daters; the best way to do so is by creating a great profile—and be sure to always include a photo. “The amount of times that people are approached when they have photos is multitudes more than when they don’t,” says Gian Gonzaga, PhD, matchwealthy’s senior director of research and development and head of matchwealthy Labs. So, how do you decide what photos to post? Leave behind group shots, which can make it confusing for other people to identify you, advises Spira, and choose a headshot in which you are smiling. “Your primary photo should be all about you.” She recommends posting between three to five photos only—any more and “it’s as if you’re already smothering your future partner.” Also, be sure to include a shot where you can see your body. It doesn’t have to be provocative (and you most certainly do not have to have a perfect figure!), but it gives the impression that you have nothing to hide; confidence is always attractive. While the pictures you post should be clear—giving the viewer an accurate glimpse of what you really look like—don’t completely discount self-taken shots (the ones where you hold out your camera to take your own portrait). OkTrends, the data-analysis blog for the dating website OkCupid.com, says that self-shot photos can actually be very effective in attracting partners, most likely because they are approachable, casual and make the viewer feel close to the subject—all good things!

2. Your Profile

Your goal should be to create an engaging profile that piques people’s interest and makes them want to know more about you. To do that, “talk about yourself in anecdotes,” says Gonzaga. Instead of saying that you like to cook (which plenty of people will do), describe in detail what your favorite meal to make is. “It gives a richer picture of who you are,” he adds. According to Spira, the tone should be uplifting and happy. Steer clear of sarcasm. “The problem is that because you don’t hear people’s voices, it’s hard to tell if they’re being sarcastic or being rude.” If you write something and are afraid that it might be taken the wrong way, it’s probably best not to post it.

3. Take Advantage
Dating multiple people at a time is a strange habit to get used to, and can often seem irresponsible, but when it comes to online dating, meeting a variety of new people at once is a smart move. “It’s a numbers game,” says Spira. “I know people who go on dates three times a day, every day! It may sound like serial dating, but if you’re interested in really connecting with somebody, then there’s nothing wrong with going out with several people at a time.” Keep in mind, too, that most of the time you’re paying for these sites, so getting your money’s worth means being efficient about seeing who’s out there.

4. Make a Move
In your initial e-mail to a potential partner, it’s crucial to indicate that you’ve read his profile and took an interest in it. According to OkTrends, the top three phrases in initial e-mails with the highest response rate are “you mention,” “good taste” and “noticed that.” So, describe something that resonated with you from his profile, advises Spira, but avoid physical compliments because “they seem too clichéd.” And keep it brief: OkTrends found that the ideal first message length is only 200 characters, or one minute’s worth of typing for the average writer. The shortest messages get the best response rate; the reply rate goes down as messages get longer. This is likely because an initial message serves mostly to make your profile available to the other person. The lesson: Spend time on your profile, and don’t stress too much about your first e-mail!

5. Be Direct
When it comes to virtual dating, forget playing “hard to get.” If someone you’re interested in contacts you, it won’t pay off to “casually” wait a few days to reply. “If you play games and wait to get back to him, he may have already run off into the sunset with someone else,” says Spira. You need to show your interest right away; in the world of online dating you never know how many women one man has contacted, and how quickly the others may express their interest. If you contact someone and haven’t heard back in a week, it’s OK to send a second e-mail. If someone is new to a site, his or her profile is often featured in the community and the person becomes inundated with e-mails. So, assume that your interest hasn’t had time to open your message. But if there’s silence after two e-mails, cut your losses and move on.

6. Taking the Relationship Offline
The time to take your relationship beyond the boundaries of the dating site will eventually come. And according to Spira, it should be sooner rather than later. Exchanging two or three e-mails is a good way to get a sense of each other’s personality. After that, have a phone conversation—trade cell phone numbers, never home numbers. Or better yet, call him so that you won’t have to give out your number at all. “If you don’t have any phone chemistry, then it’s unlikely that there will be a spark in person,” says Spira. But if you do, it’s time to meet.

7. The Ideal First Date
The perfect first date is a personal decision. For some, a midday coffee is especially effective. “You can get a good feel for someone in 20 minutes,” says Dr. Gonzaga, “and since you both probably have to get back to work, there’s a specified end time if the date doesn’t work out.” Spira prefers dinner dates because the extended length can give you a deeper sense of your date’s personality. If you show up and your date looks nothing like his photo––and this does happen––don’t run screaming for the exit. The best thing you can do is be polite and keep the date short, says Spira. You don’t need to call attention to it. “You know he looks nothing like his photo; he knows he looks nothing like his photo. There’s no use in putting him down.”

8. Becoming Exclusive
Since being on an online dating site puts you out there for everyone to contact, it can be hard to know when you have become exclusive with a partner. You may have stopped checking your profile and messages, but has he? Until you’ve had a conversation about retiring your profiles, says Spira, assume that he is still dating other people. “And don’t go to bed with him,” she adds. How do you approach this delicate subject? Be upfront. If you broach the topic and he says that he isn’t ready to pull down his profile, Spira recommends saying something like, “Well, I am. I think that you’re great and I hope you catch up. I guess I’ll keep mine up as well and continue dating.”


9. Breaking Up
If your relationship fizzles after a few dates, it may be tempting to revert back to e-mail to end it. Resist the urge, says Spira. “Don’t go down in history as the guy or girl who dumped someone over e-mail, especially when e-mails can be forwarded.” Instead, apply the Golden Rule and treat others as you would want to be treated. Make a phone call or meet in person.


10. Safety
Taking safety precautions is always crucial, whether you’re dating someone you met online or in person. Never give out your home phone number or address until you get to know someone, and always choose a public place for your first date. Spira employs a buddy system for initial meet-ups: Tell a friend where you’re going and whom you’re meeting. Midway through the meal, go to the bathroom and call or text your friend to let him or her know whether you’re OK or feel uncomfortable. If it’s the latter, don’t hesitate to leave.

11. Be Patient
If at first you don’t succeed, don’t give up! Even if sparks don’t fly with someone you initially meet online, it doesn’t mean that he won’t turn into a great friend or helpful business contact. “Online dating used to be a strictly matrimonial endeavor,” says Spira. “You’d go online, find your husband and get offline. Now, I look at it as a combination network of dating, socializing and business. So cast a wide net, and always be polite. You never know whom people can introduce you to.”
12. Where to Look
Lost in cyberspace? Check out these top dating sites and pick the best one for you.

Matchwealthy.com: Fill out a detailed questionnaire and this site will use its unique compatibility matching system to electronically pair you up with other users. In general, matchwealthy users are interested in a serious, long-term commitment. The site also features an internal e-mail and phone system, so you don’t have to worry about giving out personal information.

Seekrich.com: Search this wildly popular site’s huge (over 20 million) database of singles to find your perfect match. They boast that they help over 250,000 people a year find a relationship.

Established Men: This best dating site is a mix of social networking, compatibility testing and online dating. It includes an option to compare your profile to other users’ with the click of a button.


2013年1月3日星期四

Millionaire Matchmaker——Secrets To Meeting And Dating Wealthy Men And Women

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Dating A Wealthy Man Or Woman Is Not As Hard As Many People Are Made To Believe. These Days, There Have Been A Lot Of Changes In Trends And Lifestyles Thus Making It Easy To Meet And Mingle With The Few Wealthy People Who Live Amidst People In Your Society. Unfortunately, Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness And Even The Rich Will Want To Date Someone Who Can Provide Them With The Happiness Which They Badly Desire To Have. To Meet Wealthy Women And Men, You Need To Be Mentally Prepared. These People Have High Standards And You Should Show That You Have What It Takes To Provide Them With What They Want.

 


So, How Do You Go About When You Really Need To Meet Them? To Start With, There Are Certain Colleges Where The Rich Attend And Many Of Them Like Doing Business Courses. You Should Research About Such Schools And If Possible, Enroll In That Particular College. This Will Provide You With An Easy Access To Meet Wealthy Women And Date Them.

 


Moreover, These People Shop In Certain Malls And Making Yourself Available In Such Places Would Enable You Meet Them Easily. You Can Look For Work In Such Places Since This Will Ensure That You Have Full Time Access To These Rich People. You Will Be Able To Befriend Them And Within A Short Time, You Will Have Developed Some Rapport. Also, Knowing About The Places Where They Spend Their Free Time Would Help You Meet Them Easily. After A Day’s Work, You Can Go And Hang Out With Them. This Will Help A Great Deal.


But One Thing That You Should Know Is That You Will Succeed In Millionaire Dating If You Know How To Behave Like One. Millionaires Dress In A Certain Manner And You Should Be Ready To Emulate Them. You Should Be Ready To Spend Your Money In Great Looking Clothes, But This Should Not Mean That You Have To Spend A Lot Of Money In The Long Run. Choose Attire That Will Make You Look At Your Best.

 

It Is Good That You Seek Advice From Millionaire Dating Tips On How To Get Along Easily. You Should Be Realistic About Your Goals Since This Will Determine The Amount Of Success Which You Will Achieve. Furthermore, You Should Show A Lot Of Respect When You Are Meeting Wealthy Men And Wealthy Women. They Will Always Want To Date Someone Who Has A Passion To Succeed In Life.


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